Lots of info to pass along and some you may/may not know but I will try to pass info along and let you decide what you may need? No offence intended, just easier to get the info across in one post ---if we can!
Location of solenoid is in first couple pictures that I snipped from the parts catalog here:
https://catalog3d.winnebagoind.com/menu/Parts.htm
Not knowing, I chose the early build date but likely not changed on later year change.
Click the pictures to get larger/better view.
The first pic is from left side showing a panel near the rear, opposite the batteries.
Second pic is as if we turned the RV and look "through" at the back of that panel to see the solenoid.
For wiring they have been cutting back a bit on the wiring info and they are not showing much on your battery disconnect wiring, but I did mark out what I see as the way the mode solenoid works.
Left side of the drawing shows both coach and chassis batteries with wires going to the solenoid, chassis connected to left side on drawing and marked in red and coach going to big post on right and marked in green.
The blue marking is what I see as wiring coming down from the dash switch to the solenoid with coil inside and then on to the ground on the other wire marked in blue. This is what makes the electromagnet in the coil pull the contacts closed to connect red to green!
I get the wiring info/ ID from this chart and the wires labeled on the drawing (LR and MG)
https://www.winnebago.com/Files/File...ical_guide.pdf
Sad part is that they show us the two disconnect relays on the drawing but NO WIRES! We know they are there but how they work and how they are wired is not known! OUCH?
Maybe if you can get into it far enough, you can search out which disconnect switch works which relay and maybe see some ideas on them?
About all I can see, so good luck and happy hunting!