The old dog Winnebagos never die --- but the info gets scarce!
So a place to get help to find and ID things is here:
Parts catalog
https://catalog3d.winnebagoind.com/menu/Parts.htm
For your specific year, make, model:
https://www.winnebago.com/Files/File...6/96km35wq.pdf
The older info is not as nice as new as information systems have moved a long way in 25 years so we have to do more guessing and hunting.
The info on your RV is laid out in alphabetic order and water and sewer are where you are speaking, so it is way down around page 79, where I did a look and found the info in this snip.
Click the snip to get a better view?
It says there is a two posiotn valve called a bypass so best guess is that it is not the solenoid but most likely a smallish handle type valve to turn to bypass the water heater.
I might first guess where the back of the heater would be hidden and possibly behind a panel to remove but very near the back of the water heater, I would expect to find a valve in the water line going to the heater tank to stop water going into the tank and let it just go past (bypass) the tank.
Newer we get all kinds of great info, less so on Rv with more "experience" !!!
Sorry, but the best I've got.