Ok, sounds like logic has a place in your experience!
One way to spot drains that may be hard to find is looking at the underside for tubes hanging down open at the end. That often means there is a valve almost directly above!
Traliers certainly don't get the best online posted info, so we have to look for ways to get around!
Just some points on the way RV water works may help to clear a few questions.
The pressure water is fairly straight forward as it comes in and connects to all the faucets, DUH!
point to notice is that there is likely a little spring loaded button inside the water fitting. That acts as a cheap once way( check) valve. It lets pressure water in but when we diconnect the hose and use the pump, we build pressure on the inside lines connected to that port. If we did not have a check valve there, water would come OUT instead of going in!
One to keep in mind because that little plastic disk can get broken or flip up on it's side and when you turn on the pump, water may trickle down the side!
But then when we look at drawings online for the motorized group, we can see that pressure water going in and meeting the line from the pump doesn't go through the pump backwards to the fresh tank! There is a check valve built in the fresh pump to keep water flowing backwards into the tank to overflow!
Simple things like check valves solve some big questions. How do we put pressure on from a hose but not fill the tank if we also put pressure on with the pump?
I drew up this crude drawing. you know one way valves (check ) valves?
Two simple ones involved to stop water going the wrong way to get outside or the other way to get to the tank and overflow it!
Click this to get better view!
Tricky little gizmos can be fun OR they can drive us silly if they feel like it!
You likely have one playing games with your mind!
Reason for thinking there is not much chance of any connection is the difference in pipe for supply and drains. supply is often 1/2 inch tubing and it's hard to get fittings to match it to 1 1/4 drains. It can be done but it takes effort!
Unless you are following a real bummer!